Rafael M. Batista

This is a "commonplace notebook" of sorts, where I collect passages, observations, and ideas I want to hold on to. Inspired by Steven Johnson, Anne Lamott, and James Somers. This rendering, however, was inspired by Jeff Fossett.

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#1 March 2026

The family we draw

I married my wife a few months ago, in December of 2025. It was a small ceremony at the Broward County Courthouse with my parents and Megan's mom as the witnesses.

Friends have since asked "how does it feel?" or, more specifically, "does it feel any different?" They ask because my wife and I have been together for a while, basically the entirety of my PhD (and the entirety of hers). We've lived together on and off during this time, moving with COVID and spending time apart because our research programs were states apart. By my mom's account "hate to break this to you, but you've been married and didn't know it."

It's true that it mostly feels the same, but there's at least one thing that feels fundamentally different and it's something no one ever told me and I never thought to ask. Though once I say it aloud, it's rather obvious. So I've devised a simple thought experiment to illustrate.

Imagine being asked to "draw your family," whatever that means to you. How would you do it?

You can do it here (or draw it on a napkin and upload the photo):

Scroll down to see how I would do it.

For me, for most of my life, my "family" looked like this:

Stick figure drawing: two parents, me (oldest), and triplet siblings

This is my mom, my dad, me (since I'm the oldest) and my siblings (as you can probably tell they're triplets). Depending on the period, there may have been a dog or two, maybe a half dozen parrakeets, but otherwise that was it. Grandparents, aunts, and uncles were relegated to "extended family".

But my sense of family has started changing. It's changing still. My new image is looking something closer to this:

Stick figure drawing: Megan and our puppy Millie

My family is Megan and, for the moment, our puppy Millie. My siblings also have their own newly formed families. One is married, two are having kids with their respective partners, and all three within the last 12 months have become homeowners. We each have a family of our own and so, in the eyes of me just a few months ago, we've each been relegated to each others' "extended family".

What's weird to me about all this is that I never thought to ask my parents or my siblings about this before. I never asked them all to draw what they saw their "family" to be because I assumed it would look like mine. Nowadays I'm less sure. Maybe my parents' image never looked like mine. It's possible that once you reach this stage the frame expands and whatever the next generation sees as "extended" is just your version of "family".

Stick figure drawing: expanded family view, the way parents might see it
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#2 April 2026

Trails and public spaces

Kenny Peng (together with Erica Chiang, Sophie Greenwood, Jon Kleinberg, and Nikhil Garg) proposes a new design for social media: rather than feeds—where there's only one direction to move in—a better design would facilitate trails.

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#3 April 2026

From: Claude Design; For: Researchers

On Friday, Anthropic Labs released a preview of Claude Design, an entirely new way to interact with Claude to create visual work like "designs, prototypes, slides, one-pagers, and more."

The video blew me away. It's so cool!

Then I tried it. The actual product, used to redo a few slides, was… underwhelming.

Claude Design rendering of a slide, showing awkward layout and rough formatting

Nevertheless, Claude Design exposes a path for a company like Anthropic to truly disrupt the academic system as we know it.

Let's imagine another product entirely, but with the academic researcher in mind. I'll call it Manuscript.

Manuscript: An imagined product for academic research, inspired by Claude Design

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